A Strong Start: Introducing your Children to a New Cat
One of the most difficult periods in a new pet’s life is the initial introduction to his or her new family. When you throw children into the mix, the introduction can really make or break their relationship with the new cat. In order to guarantee a successful start, there are a few steps you should take to make sure your children know what to expect and the proper way to handle a kitten. Be aware that mishaps will happen and kittens may scratch or bite. Be prepared to address these issues should they arise to avoid your children becoming fearful of their new four legged companion.
Before the Homecoming
It is very important to start before you bring your new cat home. Have a discussion with children, even if they will not be responsible for the cat’s daily care. It is often best to speak to the family all at once, so that everyone is given the same information and there are no discrepancies. Go over who will be caring for the cat or kitten, and what tasks they are responsible for. This is especially important when adopting a feline for the very first time. A chart or calendar can be extremely helpful when children will be involved in cat care. Never assume they will know what needs done. Set solid guidelines that tell what to do every step of the way. Make sure exact quantities are also recorded for feeding purposes as well as times. Do not simply write “afternoon” or “morning.” Instead, give a time so your children and the new pet can easily adapt to a daily schedule. After everyone knows what their responsibilities will be, it is time to address proper handling of the new cat. Kittens are still growing and should never be handled carelessly. Explain that the new pet is a living thing and should be treated gently. If you plan to keep your cat indoors, remind children the importance of watching for the cat when opening doors and what to do should the cat escape.
The First Meeting
The first meeting between your children and a new pet will set the stage for their future together. Make sure children understand that they must remain calm and quiet around the new pet. It helps to emphasize that the feline is coming to an unfamiliar place. Sudden movement and loud sounds could create stress and should always be avoided. Let your children get involved in setting up the cat’s living areas. This will help them feel like a part of the newcomer’s life and will help them understand the responsibilities of a pet. If you plan to keep the kitten in a single room at first, make sure ample water is available as well as a litter box. Toys can be great fun for a kitten and children, however explain that when the cat first comes home to allow time before attempting to play. Children should never shove toys in the cat’s face or be forceful in any way when it comes to playtime. Finally, when the time comes, make sure your children follow through. Do not allow them to get rowdy or loud around the new kitten. Bringing a new furry friend home can be very exciting for little ones, and it may become difficult to not become overbearing or noisy. This is especially true for very young children. If necessary, send children out of the room to calm down and allow them to return when they have regained composure.
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